Archive for June 18, 2018

Keep Track of Your Child

A terrible fear of any parent is turning around and seeing nothing but a crowd of strangers and not their child. I still remember the feeling, and my “child” is almost 33. I took all the precautions I could think of back then. But this video offers some that I didn’t think of. If you don’t have young children or grandchildren, please pass this on to friends who do. (Note: The sound may not work for you, but it’s only a musical background–no spoken words. The captions give the information.)

 

https://www.facebook.com/officialplayfull/videos/2069570226698205/?t=90

Celebration Warning

Weddings, graduations, bar mitzvahs, birthdays…let the celebrations begin! But do NOT include a balloon-release, which can harm wildlife. Birds starve to death after eating the  indigestible balloons or get tangled in their strings, and hatchlings are strangled in the strings that have been built into their nest.

[For more easy, money-saving, Earth-friendly tips, download a FREE copy of Green Riches: Help the Earth & Your Budget. Go to www.Smashwords.com/books/view/7000 or your favorite e-book seller and download to your computer or e-book device. Totally free, with no strings attached.]

A Flag with Great Meaning

Today’s Thursday Thought offers two quotes worth remembering on this Flag Day. Our U.S. flag was adopted today in 1777.

“We take the star from Heaven, the red from our mother country, separating it by white stripes, thus showing that we have separated from her, and the white stripes shall go down to posterity representing liberty.” — George Washington.

When we honor our flag we honor what we stand for as a Nation — freedom, equality, justice, and hope.” — Ronald Reagan

A By-and-Large Day

I’m feeling word-ish today. Which means that you get some (what I think is interesting) background on a phrase we hear often, “by and large.”

Would you believe that the common expression “by and large” was originally a nautical term? “Large” meant that the wind was to a ship’s back as it sailed (a good thing), and “full and by” meant that the ship was headed into the wind (not good). “By and large” indicated that the ship was sailing through changing, unpredictable winds that hit them from varying directions. Somehow that came to mean what it does today in common usage–“for the most part” or “all things considered.”

So, dear readers, I wish you a day that is, by and large, not by and large.

 

Do You Trust that Contractor?

We’re in the build/repair/replace/remodel season. It’s also choose-a-contractor season. Who to trust? Of course, you’ll ask friends and neighbors, and you’ll read Yelp reviews (may be of questionable value). You finally call some to get estimates (of course, you’ll get at least three).

One more thing: How much do they want up-front? Here’s where you can do an integrity-check. Do they ask for more than the law allows? For example, in California, they can ask no more than 10% of the total estimate, or $1000, whichever is less. That’s the law.

There are two questions to ask yourself, then. One is, what’s the law in your state? The other is, how much can you trust someone who asks for more in advance? That is, if he’s breaking the law, how honest is he?  —  Something to think about.

 

Our Beautiful, Endangered Oceans

Yesterday was World Oceans Day, calling attention to our oceans and how to appreciate and take care of them and inviting us to do so all year long.  This year the emphasis is on all the plastic accumulating in those  magnificent bodies of water. So I offer you this small reflection:

40,000 garbage trucks filled with plastic = 270,000 tons of it floating around our oceans. That’s what the current estimate is. And that’s a conservative guess, since fish, birds, and other species eat a good amount of it. It’s unsightly and deadly for the critters who eat it or get hopelessly entangled in it.  It’s not healthy for humans, either.

This is something to think about next time we’re about to toss a plastic bottle cap, bag, food wrapper, or other item onto the roadway or gutter, where it can wash into the waterways leading to the ocean.  Or tossing those items off of a boat or bridge.

The item can’t be that heavy to hold onto until you see the next recycling container.

 

Risk and Warnings of Suicide and What to Do

Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain are only the latest suicides we’ve heard about. They made the news because they’re famous people who “had it all.”  But they didn’t, really. They lacked something important in their lives.

We all know people like them–not famous, maybe, but people who may be thinking that life isn’t worth living so why not end it. People who contribute something to this world, even if it’s “just” their love for a friend or relative.

We can, and should, keep our eyes open for the signs. The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention’s list of Risk Factors and Warning Signs can help us spot the warning signs (talk, behavior, and mood) and risk factors (health, environment, and history).  When we recognize one in someone, or even think we do, we should talk to a trained crisis counselor at the Suicide Prevention Hotline. Phone them at  1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741 to message with a trained crisis counselor. And if you feel they’re getting close to committing suicide, call 911 and don’t leave them alone under any circumstances.

Not only are you saving their life, but you’re also reminding them that there’s at least one person who wants to continue sharing this world with them. A little thing but one that may just help them find something worth living for.

 

JFK Wisdom

Today’s bit of wisdom in the form of a Thursday Thought quote comes from President John F. Kennedy:

“One person can make a difference, and everyone should try.” — John Fitzgerald Kennedy

 

1968 and Beyond: God Bless America

It really WAS “the year that changed America.”  While living through it in my twenties, I didn’t realize that, of course.  It just seemed that a whole lot of bad stuff and changes were happening.

I recorded the four-part series “1968: The Year that Changed America” and have just finished watching it.  I realize now that my mind, in its mercy, stretched out all those events over several years rather than containing them in that one actual year.

I realize, too, that 1968 changed not only my country but me, too. I became more aware of the atrocities people can carry out on each other and of the ever-present good people who step in to help victims; of unjust laws and people acting to change them; of prejudice and bigotry and those of all colors who unite to fight them; of senseless violence and people who mourn, then rise to say “Never again!”

Watching “1968” had an odd effect on me.  It saddened me as I remembered my emotions at the time.  And it encouraged me, because it reminded me that Americans are resilient, determined, and caring.  It made me more optimistic as I live through this current turbulent era.

And it reminded me that God truly does bless America, and He does it through us, the people.

 

For the “I Don’t Wanna Garden” Person

Want a garden but don’t have space? Or have space but don’t know how to garden? Consider sharing a garden.  Go to www.sharedearth.com to learn how

[For more easy, money-saving, Earth-friendly tips, download a FREE copy of Green Riches: Help the Earth & Your Budget. Go to www.Smashwords.com/books/view/7000 or your favorite e-book seller and download to your computer or e-book device. Totally free, with no strings attached.]