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My Thoughts on Kneeling

This isn’t a political statement, so please don’t react to it as such.

In today’s negative climate, I think we’re too quick to assume that a person’s out-of-the-ordinary action is intended to be an insult to us personally. Take kneeling at the National Anthem, for example.

I don’t pretend to know the motivation of each person doing that, but I do know why some people kneel. They look at kneeling from its historical perspective: showing respect (as to a king or queen); showing devotion, esteem, or reverence (God); as a form of supplication ( God, marriage proposal, begging); mourning, sadness, vulnerability. If this is a person’s motivation, what’s wrong with it? Is it okay to kneel before our flag to show it honor and respect? To kneel during the National Anthem to show sadness at perceived wrongs going on in our country? Possibly even to kneel in silent prayer for the good of our country and its people?

To some people, could kneeling, especially with a hand over the heart and bare heads, actually be positive?

Maybe we’d be better off fighting the true evils that divide us rather than reading people’s minds and attacking them for actions that express what they’re feeling while doing no harm to anyone.

Are You “Head Over Heels”?

I’m in that mood again: where the heck did that phrase come from?  Please indulge me.  It gives me a break from serious thinking.

Of course, you know what it means–super excited, hyper-interested, like, wow! that’s unbelievably fantastic!  And most people associate it with being in love.

Originally, though, it just meant being upside down, topsy-turvy.  The romantic soul who tied it into love for the first time did so in his autobiography in 1834.  That was none other than Davey Crockett.

How’s that for a bit of trivia that you can’t work into any conversation?

A Flag with Great Meaning

Today’s Thursday Thought offers two quotes worth remembering on this Flag Day. Our U.S. flag was adopted today in 1777.

“We take the star from Heaven, the red from our mother country, separating it by white stripes, thus showing that we have separated from her, and the white stripes shall go down to posterity representing liberty.” — George Washington.

When we honor our flag we honor what we stand for as a Nation — freedom, equality, justice, and hope.” — Ronald Reagan

Why Do We Say That?

Today I’d like to look at some terms that don’t make sense to me, ones we use to soften the real meaning (why?)   Yet we all use them.

Pass away:  I’ll accept this one for the sake of loved ones, although most people don’t slowly and gently “pass” into death.

Gentleman’s club:  Come on–it’s a strip joint!  A gentleman, in the old sense of the word–and it IS an old fashioned concept–wouldn’t be caught passing away in such a place.

Assaulted:  This is a blanket term for everything from a mugging to a groping of a woman’s breast to rape.  I don’t like it because it minimizes the violent crime of rape.  Yes, they’ll eventually call a rape a “sexual assault,” which still diminishes the crime.  Rape is rape!

Touched inappropriately:  No, she was groped or had some other physical advance perpetrated on her against her will.  “Touched” sounds so gentle, and “inappropriately” sounds like there’s an appropriate way to do it.

Near miss:  Not really.  The two airplanes nearly collided.  If it was a near miss, they would have crashed into each other.  But barely missing something makes us more comfortable than almost becoming vulture food.

Okay.  I’ll climb off my stack of dictionaries–for now.

 

 

 

 

For My Christian and OtherReaders

To all my Christian friends and readers, and to all of you who don’t share the meaning of the day but DO believe in its spirit of love and hope for the wold:

HAVE A BLESSED CHRISTMAS!

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