Tag Archive for violence

If God Doesn’t Care, Why Should I?

GOD DOESN’T CARE SO WHY SHOULD I?  This is an easy attitude to take in our world of suicide bombers, AIDS, crushing poverty, hunger, homelessness, violent gangs, abuse of all kinds, drugs, discrimination, and cruelty.  The answer lies in today’s Thursday Thought, which is an ancient teaching:

Past the seeker as he prayed, came the crippled and the beggar and the beaten.  And seeing them, the holy one went down into deep prayer and cried, “Great God, how is it that a loving creator can see such things and yet do nothing about them?”  And out of the long silence, God said, “I did do something.  I MADE YOU.”

Maybe Our Lent Should Be Changed

Many people observe Lent.  It’s a great shot in the rump for our weight-control, which is what many of us use it for.  We give up sweets and snacks, hoping to reduce our body-weight.  This year, let’s concentrate on reducing a different kind of weight in our world, the damaging heaviness of violence, shown in unkindness, hostility, cruelty, disrespect, and selfishness.  The Institute for Peace and Justice has developed a “Pledge of Nonviolence” we can adopt as an individual, family, or group of any sort.  With it, we promise to 1) respect self and others, 2) communicate better, 3) listen, 4) forgive, 5) respect nature, 6) play creatively, and 7) be courageous. All are perfect Lenten activities.  Then, when people ask that old question, “What did you give up for Lent?” you can answer, “I gave up being a cause of violence in my world.”

 

What the Heck Does “Speak Truth to Power” Mean?

It’s a phrase that has recently become popular, although it is, by no means, new.  It goes back to 1955, when the Quakers used it to urge our country to stand up to all forms of totalitarianism, especially fascism. (It was the title of one of their pamphlets.)

Today, it refers to holding a deep belief in what you say about injustice and using all nonviolent means to have people hear you.  It’s standing up and speaking up, often (but not always) to government.  “Speak truth to power” takes the courage of your convictions.

Too often the phrase is used to justify saying something to Authority that people in authority don’t want to hear.

But, for many, it’s intention is the same today as it was in the 1950s: to change our old thinking about violence and injustice; to reject both; and to embrace peace and justice.  I like that idea very much.

20 Children a Day Sent to Hospital

What is the cause of 20 kids a day being sent to the hospital?  Injuries related to guns, according to a new study.  People try to use safety locks and put the guns out  of reach of children, but kids are smarter and more aware than we give them credit for and know exactly where the guns are kept.

Until the middle of 2016 gun ownership was declining–from 51% in Jan. 1978 to 36% in June 216.  Today it’s up to 44%, I’d guess because of all the turmoil, violence, and uncertainty we’re currently facing.

No, it’s not the guns themselves that injure our kids because, after all, they’re inanimate objects. But more of them around increases the likelihood of more hurt children because there are more opportunities for them to gain access to these forbidden “toys.”  And more situations in which they’re innocent victims of drive-by shootings, as well as shootings related to vengeance, race, and domestic disputes.

I don’t know what the answer is.  There are pros and cons to stricter gun regulations.  Parents love their kids but are sometimes unthinking people, therefore not always totally careful locking and hiding firearms. Eliminating crime, domestic violence, gangs, and terrorism isn’t something we’ll be able to do soon.  As  I say, I don’t know what the answer is.  But I do  know that more has to  be done bring that twenty a day down to zero.

 

Woman, Light a Fire!

Violence! Fighting! Rock-throwing! Vandalism! Fires!  These are common events at marches and protests.  There were 470,000 or so people in the Women’s March in DC (and many, many more in other cities, including my home town of San Jose, CA).  And what did they do?  The raised their voices to express their demands for justice, peace, and equality in our country. Women carried signs related to a multitude of social justice issues and expressed their displeasure with a President who has promised (and has already started) to set policies that they see as perpetuating social INjustice.  They sang and chanted, gave and listened to speeches, discussed issues with  those around them, became more and more determined.

They did not riot. Or destroy property.  Or attack each other.

My daughter and granddaughter attended.  My apolitical granddaughter decided  that giving up a planned snow trip and enduring the several-hour bus ride from their New Jersey home to DC was worth it, that this was an historical and meaningful event she wanted to participate in.  My daughter, more political, agreed, and off they went.  See pictures below.

There are several lessons here.  First, women united can light a fire that makes a difference.  Second, the next generation of adults care about the human family.  Third, protests can be peaceful, and they should be if participants are to be taken seriously.

I’m proud of my family’s involvement and of all the 470,000 people in DC and all the others who showed up and spoke up.

  

Grannies Fight Back

You’re an older lady who, sometime in your life, has suffered domestic violence or elder abuse.  What do you do?

A group of these women in Charleston WV joined the police department to help fight violence.  Their weapon: hugs.

The “Grandma Unit” is still new, their matching “G-Unit” tee shirts still crisp.  But they’re making plans and devising strategies to go out into their community and use hugs and love to fight crime and violence.

Watch the short video.

I’m wondering, if these women can do it, why not all of us?

 

Know Your Headgear

A 68-year-old Sikh man was purposely hit by a truck then beaten by two men.  A physician and assistant professor of international affairs at Columbia University was beaten by at least a dozen teens and young men.   Each year since 9/11, violence against peace-loving Sikhs has increased.

And the reason may very well boil down to beards and headgear, which are part of a devout Sikh man’s appearance.

Many people see the turban on a Sikh man and think he’s Muslim, then jump to the conclusion that all Muslims are responsible for 9/11 and the current terrorism.  It’s a double error.

To dispel at least part of this egregious situation, I invite you to learn about the different headgear worn by Sikhs, Muslim religious elders, Afghan Muslims, Iranian Mullahs, Arab Muslim Kaffiyeh, and dessert people and Muslim terrorists.

Take a look.  Then spread the word.

 

 

Causes of Violence

Guns may not be the cause of all the violence we’re experiencing in our country.  In today’s Thursday Thought, Mahatma Gandhi gets down to the real root causes.

“The Roots of Violence: Wealth without work, Pleasure without conscience, Knowledge without character, Commerce without morality, Science without humanity, Worship without sacrifice, Politics without principles.” — Mahatma Gandhi

 

 

How to Promote Spousal Abuse

Here’s a recipe for promoting spousal abuse and other violent personal crimes: Recruit people for sports like football and boxing or induct them into the military.  Then spend the entire time you have them training them to fight, attack, do physical harm, and perform other acts of extreme violence.   Focus on harming their opponent, who is an enemy to be defeated at all cost.  Mold them into fighting machines whose objective is to win.

When you’re successful, don’t be shocked when the violence they’re trained for and live with daily spills into their private lives.  If you don’t want that to happen, maybe you should modify the training.

 

 

 

Spanking is Good and Should Hurt

Spank that misbehaving kid 10 times, and be sure to leave some bruising and redness.  That’s what would be allowed under a proposed Kansas  House bill if it passes.  Its author says it would restore children’s respect for authority and the rights of parents who currently can spank their children as long as they don’t leave any marks.  It would apply to teachers, as well as any caregivers.

It doesn’t matter that research has shown that time out is more effective than spanking, or that it would still be illegal to use fists or belt on a child, or that 30 other states ban spanking altogether.  Personally, I subscribe to the theory that violence begets violence–that spanking or hitting a child teaches him or her that violence is appropriate.  I think there’s enough violence in the world without laws that perpetuate it.