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Come on, Ryan–Man Up!

It’s bad enough that an athlete representing the United States should vandalize and act like a jerk in another country.  But Ryan Lochte himself shouldn’t have made things worse.

Maybe he was encouraged by the people who were urging everyone to “give him a break,” because the swim team were “just kids” doing “mischief.”  KIDS?  At their age?  MISCHIEF?  Destroying and urinating on other people’s property?

Ryan hasn’t actually apologized to Brazil yet.  His explanations relate to himself, not to others:  “I should have been more careful” – “I made a mistake. – “I learned a lesson.”  He admits to immature behavior and “over-exaggerating” the facts. And his excuse is that he was drunk.

But there’s no apology to the Brazilians–or to the American people,  whom he disgraced.

Come on, Ryan.  You’re 32.  Grow up.  And man up.

 

Strictly Plural No More

I give up.  I know it’s been acceptable since Jan. 8 of this year, and I’ve tried–really tried–but the grammarian in me cringes.  As of right now, however, I promise to do it!

What I’m talking/cringing about is the fact that the American Dialect Society last January declared “they” as their word of the (2015) year, pronouncing it proper to use as a singular pronoun.  These people are no grammar slouches; they’re a group of 200+ linguists who have, since 1889, been studying North American English.  They know what they’re talking about (sigh).

I admit that it’s easier.  How often I’ve agonized over having to use “he/she,” “one,” or the cutesy “(s)he.”  Now, instead of saying, “I hate the grammarian who thinks he/she/(s)he/one is smarter than I am, ” I say “I hate the grammarian who thinks they are smarter than I am.”

Either way, he/she/(s)he/they is smarter.

 

Understanding Autism

One in every 110 U.S. kids  has it, and 3.5 million Americans live with an autism spectrum disorder.  Between 2000 and 2010, autism in our nation’s children increased by 119.4%, and it’s still increasing.  In fact,  autism is the fastest-growing developmental disability in the U.S.

You probably know someone with it but think of the person as “a little off” because you don’t recognize his or her autism.

This is good month to learn about it, because it’s National Autism Awareness Month.  http://www.whathealth.com/awareness/event/nationalautismmonth.html gives an excellent summary of how autism affects a person, the characteristics you might notice, and how the American Autism Society is trying to spread the word about this condition with no known cause (no, vaccines don’t bring it on).

Another very good site is offered by Easter Seals, “Autism Signs and Symptoms,” including a list of behaviors with which you can evaluate your own child.

These sites are worth looking at, if for no other reason than they may lead people to be more tolerant and understanding rather than writing someone off as “odd,” “cold,” or “stand-offish.”

 

 

Politics and Pits–American Slang

As we begin a new year of political mud-slinging, personal attacks, prejudicial statements against groups of people, half-truths, false accusations, and the like, I am reminded of an American slang term: it’s the pits, meaning a situation that’s really terrible.

It actually came from where you’d expect.  In the 1950s, we began using “pits” as shorthand to refer to armpits.  And, of course, people don’t exactly associate perfume and pleasant smells with armpits. It didn’t take long for the phrase “it’s the pits” to make it into everyday American speech.

That’s why I think the term is appropriate for our current Presidential race.  Simply, it’s the pits!

 

 

Some Trivia: Bee’s Wax, Cracking a Smile, and Losing Face

How about a little trivia about a few old American sayings? 

In the early days of our fine country, personal hygiene was far from what’s expected today.  Consequently, people often developed acne, which then left scars.  Men took it in stride, but women—ever concerned about their appearance—found a solution in bee’s wax, applying it to their faces to give them smoother complexions.  Naturally, beauty-conscious women would check each other out.  If they got caught, they were told to “mind your own bee’s wax!”  There were practical concerns with the wax, too.  For example, if a woman sat too close to the fire she’d find her face melting (therefore, they would “lose face”).  And they didn’t dare respond to anything that would make them smile, because their face would crack (they would “crack a smile”).

Side Note:  As I look at some movie stars and models (and some people I meet), I can’t help wondering if they’ve been using bee’s wax.

Immigrants, English, and Crime

Immigrants refuse to learn English, our national language, and cause greatly increased crime in our neighborhoods.  We hear this all the time.

The National Academies of Sciences, Engineering and Medicine have completed a two-year study of 41 million immigrants to the U.S., and, yes, they included the 11 million who are not here legally. Their report is an eye-opener.  You can read about it at the Omaha News/Nation.  Here’s the upshot, though: today’s immigrants are assimilating rapidly into our country, learning English as soon as they can, getting an education, finding jobs, advancing in careers, and–here’s the kicker– they’re not as likely to commit crimes as the rest of us American citizens.

Gives us something to chew on, doesn’t it?

 

The Royalty of Children

As we greet the new royal child, let’s think about how we can protect ALL the children of the world.  This little potential future queen—as well as our two American princesses—will never face hunger, homelessness, exploitation, or death by diseases that are virtually unknown in most of the world.  They won’t have to work long hours in the field before even their tenth birthday to help support their families.  For a certainty, they will have the opportunity for a first-rate education and be able to pass on their good fortune to their own children.

Not all babies are born into that world.  Many, many face abject poverty, malnutrition, and illiteracy.  Those who do survive to have families of their own will pass those conditions on to their children as their only possible legacy.

Those of us who are in a position to do something about the futures of these children must actually do something.  If we have the means, we can donate funds to organizations, here and abroad, that fight poverty, feed the hungry, and educate all the children.  We can volunteer as baby-rockers in at-risk hospital nurseries; aides for teachers of limited-English-speaking classes; tutors for underachieving students or those locked away at Juvenile Hall.  We can visit a museum, art gallery, zoo, tech museum, or the like, taking with us a child of parents struggling to find jobs or working several jobs to meet the bills.  We can invite a latch-key child to help make a double batch of cookies or casserole, and send half of it home with the young cook to show off to the family.  We can do…a million little things that will make a difference in a young life, things that will make a lasting impression, build his or her self-esteem, teach a concept or a skill, and, therefore, provide a step toward a better life than the child might have had.

After all, isn’t each child a royal child?

 

150 Years After Our Civil War

On this 150th anniversary of what is considered the end of the American Civil War, I feel that this Thursday Thought is appropriate.

 

“Racism is man’s gravest threat to man – the maximum of hatred for a minimum of reason.” (Abraham Joshua Heschel)

 

Kill off the Defectives

What kind of society kills off its mentally disturbed and low-IQ citizens?  Us, as is shown by two executions earlier this week.  A Missouri inmate who was considered mentally disturbed was executed, as was a Georgia man with an IQ of 70.  This is not uncommon in our American justices system.

I find this VERY unsettling.

 

 

American Trivia: Getting Around a Tax

To begin this otherwise serious political week, here’s a bit of American historical trivia you might enjoy.  See if you are playing with a full deck.

Card games have always been an American pastime.  ‘Way back, some politicians decided that cards should be taxed—but only (politician logic here) the ace of spades. Of course, people can always find a way around paying taxes, as they did in this situation: they bought decks with only 51 cards (no ace of spades).  Trouble is, how many games can be played with only 51?  Not many.  True card-players thought this was absurd, that the people pulling this tax ploy were stupid or dumb—because they weren’t “playing with a full deck.”

Like the politicians who dreamed up that tax in the first place….????