If you have a loved one who has had a stroke, this is for you: 40 Things I Need the Most–Requests from a Stroke Victim. So many of us fear doing or saying the wrong thing. As a result, many of us do nothing, thus isolating our loved one when he or she most needs human contact and love. This simple guide should remove all discomfort and make life better for both you and that person you care about. Click on the above link and look for “Special Feature” a short way down the page.