Today is Labor Day. We might have relaxation and a BBQ with friends in mind. Maybe we’ll even give a passing thought to all the workers we meet daily where we work or eat lunch. But what about those closer to home? Do we show appreciation for the work our spouse does around the house or for our family? Who labors over the gardening, laundry, cooking, planning, driving, finances, or myriad other tasks that keep a family running smoothly? Probably us or our spouse. Take a moment today—and often—to say “thank you” for something he or she does on a regular basis. Simple words of gratitude, especially when spoken frequently, remind people that what they do is noticed and drives off that slithering snake of resentment, whose bite poisons relationships.