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An Important Lesson for Our Children

Today commemorates D-Day, the largest military action attempted back in 1944. It was successful. But so many lives were lost. And it didn’t end wars. This day makes me think about peace and how we achieve it. I believe that a more peaceful world begins with our children, who will be the caretakers of the future. And with us, their current caretakers.

We can teach them peace in simple ways. Avoid video games, TV programs, and movies that glorify war, violence, torture, and destruction. As parents, we can be an example by working out disagreements without our engaging in a shouting match and certainly without hitting each other. In fact, even hitting or punching each other in jest sends a message to a child that violence is a game. We can find something specific to do when we or our children get very angry, whether it’s listening to soothing music, reading a book, or sitting quietly in a special spot in the garden. Although no single negative action will necessarily create a violent person, replacing any one of them with a positive action heads a child toward a more serene adulthood.

I Am Deeply Moved

They’re just kids from a small country that has no real influence in the world. But we came together–from many countries–to save them because of one universal belief: everyone’s child is MY child.  Our feelings are stirred because that could be our biological child, or a relative’s, or a friend’s.  At that point, nobody cares if the child lives in a nation that’s hostile to us or whose government or ideology is opposed to ours.  We don’t care about the color or religion of the child.  We just…care.

The Thailand cave rescue of those dozen kids and their soccer coach deeply moved me.  And it reminded me that we don’t need to be at each other’s throats in this world, that we can come together.  I hope that spirit lingers and spreads throughout the world.

Doing the Time for the Crime

You did the crime, now do the time!  We’ve all heard this.  St. Paul probably heard it , too, ‘way back in Biblical days, when he was jailed for his faith, although most people today are “in” for unholy acts.  We call prisons “Correctional” and “Vocational” institutions.  We want people to learn their lesson, get out, and “sin no more.” Meanwhile, they’re hardened by a solitary, harsh life, made worse by friends and family who forget about them.

But basic humanity calls us to remember all members of our community, to support and embrace even people who have made terrible mistakes and have tried to turn their lives around.  You can help these people re-enter society as productive, law-abiding people simply by writing them, giving them a positive stake in the world they’ll be rejoining.  I can tell you where to find names.

A little afraid?  After research and years of writing prisoners, I’ve developed some simple guidelines to make writing a prisoner safe and comfortable for you.  Let me know and I’ll send you that information.

Something to Bark At

This is National Puppy Day.  Not an officially-sanctioned day, just something Colleen Paige dreamed up in 2006 to call attention to dogs and the joy and love they bring to people.  AND to make more people aware of the horrors of puppy mills–the more than 8,000 backyard breeders and puppy mills in the U.S. that supply pet stores. At these places, dogs are often kept in unsanitary, cruel conditions, then killed when they can no longer produce puppies.  The motto for today is “Adopt Instead of Shop!”

I agree with that.  Here’s a picture of my 10-year-old “ooops” puppy (adopted from a family).  Her name is Riley Casey O’Donnell.  She, like all my dogs before her, is a constant lesson on how to give unconditional love, even when the recipient doesn’t seem to deserve it.

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Note to Terrorists

If you haven’t learned the lesson in the last 12 years, understand this: Any attempt at weakening us will always make us stronger, because we are Americans!

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For Dog-Lovers & Other Humans

Why did God make dogs?  This video explains it.  If you’re a true dog-lover, you’ll find yourself smiling and agreeing, then reaching over to give your dog an extra loving pat.  And maybe thinking, is there a lesson in there about how humans should treat each other?  See “God Made a Dog.”

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[Thanks to Jim Knudsen for sending me this video-link.]