One of the least-loving places we visit is where our child’s team competes. Be it soccer or softball, you’ve sat in the stands, cringing when a parent cusses at the referee or some adult encourages fighting or intentional injury, either directly or indirectly by non-verbal approval when it happens. This can be an opportunity for you to be a good example to your child, the teams, and the adults who aren’t acting like good role models.
There are many things you can do. Ask that man not to use ethnic slurs around your kids. Find something during the game to compliment the small, awkward child on the team.
If your child acts with violence, make sure your language (body and verbal) clearly indicates your disapproval. In front of other adults and the team, express your appreciation to the referee for his time and fairness. When you leave, have your child help you dispose of your family’s trash, plus what was left by people around you. Keep your eyes, ears, and heart open; you’ll find ways to be an example that your kids can look up to.