Archive for May 12, 2017

Mother’s Day Spirit

Honor the early history and spirit of Mother’s Day in the U.S. (It actually goes as far back as the ancient Greeks.) On the first Mother’s Day celebration (1858) at a W. Virginia church, Ann Jarvis united mothers to fight infant mortality.  During the rest of the 1800s women’s peace groups perpetuated the idea of bringing together mothers for just causes.  After the Civil War Julia Ward Howe called on mothers to unite against war and promote social justice.  In 1872, Anna Jarvis suggested an official Mother’s Day.  She got the idea from her own activist social worker mom, who, noticing that adult Americans were neglecting their mothers, felt strongly that all mothers should be honored for their contributions.

Greeting card companies, florists, candy-makers, and others have commercialized the day, turning it into a sentimental occasion.  Of course, moms appreciate the attention from their kids.  Wouldn’t it be appropriate, too, to celebrate them as people who accomplished the difficult task of raising children while contributing time and effort to their community and world?

Although you’ve been gone many years, happy Mother’s  Day, Mom, and thank you for all you did for our family and the positive differences you made in so many lives.

 

Defeat Anger and Contempt in 1 Minute

Today’s Thursday Thought is a 1-minute video with a message that solves the problem of political polarization–and helps the rest of us, too, to curb our anger and contempt.

 

https://www.facebook.com/harvardkennedyschool/videos/10154251688431403/

 

The Mom Project

Women DO get paid the same as men–when they first graduate from college.  The wage gap starts to open up as a woman ages toward motherhood.  Moms make 29% less than dads do in the U.S.

Is a woman less smart, capable, or able once she becomes a mother?  This short video from MomUpAmerica.com answers that question with a bit of stinging humor.

 

 

A Day for Thanks and Appreciation

Today is National Teacher Appreciation Day. It’s a day to remember that teachers care for our kids a large portion of the day, keeping them safe and helping mold them into good, productive, caring adults.  To remember that their day doesn’t end at 3:00 and their work year isn’t just 9 months, because they spend so much outside-school-building time on such things as lesson plans, grading homework, creating projects and activities, working individually with students who need extra help, conversing with parents in person or on the phone, attending classes and in-services to improve their teaching, serving on school-improvement committees, planning open-houses/back-to-school nights, completing applications for government grants, then paperwork in compliance with those grants, preparing for accreditation, and shopping for supplies for their students.  And the money for those supplies comes out of their own pockets.

Today, remind teachers that they are appreciated.  Send a thank-you note with your child.  Bring a treat to the faculty room.  Call the principal to say how much a certain teacher has helped your child.  Use #TeacherAppreciationDay to post on social media.  I’m sure you  can think of something special to do today.

 

ALS Breakthrough: Can You Afford It?

I was so happy about Radicava, the breakthrough drug to be released in August that can help people with ALS (Lou Gehrig’s Disease) by slowing down their physical decline.  I’m disappointed that it slows it by only 33%, but that’s a big step toward a larger number.  I have some questions, though.

For one, why will it cost $1000 per infusion/dose, meaning $150,000 per year?  MT Pharma America Inc., the drug’s maker, has announced that it will help people financially to buy it, whether or not they have insurance.  In that case, why not just lower the price?  Just make it affordable to all who need it without making sick people get their hopes up then have you refuse or allow them such a small amount that they still can’t afford it—or make them jump through hoops made of paperwork even to apply, then wait for an approval that may never come?

Pharmaceutical companies argue that it takes a lot of money to bring a drug to market, lots of R and D.  But people contributed a good chunk of money through the Ice Water Challenge, which brought in $115 million plus another $13 million in donations directly to the ALS Association.

The Association has spent some $47 million so far on research (plus 20% of the $115 million on patient and community services and 11% on processing, fundraising, and education—all appropriate according to Charity Navigator since ALS is not something that will be cured overnight).  That research has been fruitful.  MT Pharma benefits from that and ongoing charity-financed research.  Again, I ask MT, Do you have to make that much profit right away?  What you’ve spent developing Radicava is tax-deductible business expense, which lessens your financial exposure.  Can’t you make the drug more affordable?

I know they aren’t listening.  But I can hope.

 

Star Wars Wisdom for this Memorable Day

Today’s Thursday Thought appropriately (it IS, after all, “May the 4th be with You” Day) comes from Star Wars.

“You will find that many of the truths we cling to depend greatly on our own point of view.” — Obi-Wan Kenobi, talking to Luke

 

Help a Friend with Mental Illness

I know people struggling with depression or who are bipolar or have other conditions–friends with mental illnesses they try to hide, and friends with a mental illness that is very apparent.  You probably do, too, since one in four people experience it within any given year.  Sometimes, dealing with them isn’t easy.  Because I care for them, I want to support them; I want to make their lives more livable.  But I’m not a professional, and I don’t want to do or say something that would be harmful to them.

An article I read recently gave me some answers.  “How to Help a Friend with Mental Illness” offers five simple recommendations: 1) Listen to what they are saying.  2) Validate what they are saying. 3) Ask what they need.  4) Educate yourself about their experience. 5) Keep being a friend. (See explanations at http://www.care2.com/greenliving/how-to-help-a-friend-with-a-mental-illness.html.)

I’m trying to apply these steps to my friends.  I hope others will apply them to me when I need them.